These amazing animals are so cute! Happiness.
These amazing animals are so cute! Happiness.
I was feeling particularly blah this day. On my way home from work while on the bus the following texts ensued:
Me: Mom-my menopausal weight gain is driving me crazy! I hate it!
I think I have gained weight since the party!
Mom: Is it around your middle?
I can’t stand it.
Granted I have been drinking more then usual this summer (which still isn’t a lot because I have a low tolerance) but still I don’t think I eat unhealthy.
Chips and crackers are my weaknesses.
Mom: There is nothing you can do about it except starve. Your body will change when menopausal event is over.
Me: Will it change back?
Mom: As long as you eat healthy and exercise and I know its hard. You never again have a skinny waist but you are a curvy girl. I think you look great( side note-God love our moms!). Just don’t develop the sagging stomach down to my knees like I have (another side note-it isnot down to her knees-just a little exaggeration, lol).
These last few weeks I have definitely noticed the weight gain and it has not been fun. My clothes don’t fit the same so I am always a little uncomfortable (especially at work) and the clothes that I have that would cover up my mid-section are limited, so finding something to wear to work in the morning has been a struggle! Ugh.
I guess I will continue being active and try to cut back on carbs a little (less crackers and chips). I always appreciate this kind of advice from my mom and she has two more daughters that will seek her menopause advice eventually. Thanks Mom!!!!
(That’s me in the black dress, my mom and my sisters)
I can’t believe it. I just turned 50. I definitely don’t feel fifty and I hope I don’t look fifty (at least what fifty look liked back in the day). Birthdays have always been a little depressing for me because it just means I am getting older ( and that much closer to the end of my life. I know, a little morbid. Can’t help it) but I am working hard on having a different outlook on birthdays and aging. One defining moment that helped me in this process was in graduate school several years ago when one of my professors said he felt life really begins at 50. When he said this I felt a wave of relief and inspiration. He explained that by 50 you are reaping the rewards spent being a parent, your career is well established and you are still young enough to live an active and full life. Now that I have hit this milestone, I totally agree. My children are young adults living their lives, I enjoy my job and I am earning the most I ever have (social worker so not rich, but thats okay) and aside from a few weird age-related aches on occasion I feel like I am not a day over thirty. And as a bonus, I have the best, supportive, good looking and loving boyfriend. Life is good :).
As I enter this new decade I have vowed to myself that I am going to enjoy every minute of it and do things that I would not have normally been able to do ten years ago when I was in full blown parent mode, lack of funds and time. Along with one of my bff’s (I know, 50 and still using that acronym. I did say I still feel like I am in my 20’s, right?) we made a list of just fun things to do, so I wanted to share this list in hopes it inspires you to go out an enjoy life. It’s good to be 50 🙂
Just for fun I added a few photos I have title, “Since turning 50.”
Top Golf with family
And a little bit of this…….
So much fun at my 50th bday dance party!
15th Annual Girls Weekend. Love my Tribe
One of my favorite things to do……spending time with this one!
Ilani Casino, Amy Shumer show and jello shots that we snuck in!
Party at Cook Park with the band Hit Machine and my hot bf.
ENJOY 50 BECAUSE IT IS FABULOUS!!!!!
Every once in awhile I will take a day off during the week, just cuz. Last week we had the fourth of July holiday on a Wednesday, which was nice to have a little break mid-week but because I had to reschedule my massage for July 5th at 3:00pm, I thought why not just take the whole day off? And so I did .
My hot bf and I had decided to go on a hike that day. Living in the Pacific Northwest there is no shortage of wilderness hikes along lakes, streams and rivers with gorgeous views. I don’t know if she knows it but I am following one of my cousins on Instagram and she had posted a few weeks ago that she had gone on a hike on Hamilton Mountain. It is near Cascade Locks near Stevenson Washington. Have you read the book or seen the movie Wild? She comes to the end of her hike of the Pacific Crest Trail at the Bridge of the Gods. To get to Hamilton Mountain from Portland, you cross the Bridge of the Gods and its just a few miles west (just so you have a point of reference).
The other great part of the day was that my son and his girlfriend joined us. I love my time with my kids so I was so happy he and his gf wanted to come with us. Before the hike I read a little bit about the details of the trail and I will say that it was rated as “strenuous,” but that’s relative, right? Wrong! Oh my gosh, it was a hike all up hill! We made lots of pit stops for the views ( a few of the views below):
We took snack breaks and I took many “slow down my heart rate” stops but eventually we made it to one of the tops of the hike that had an incredible view.
A pic of my son and his girlfriend (left) and my significant other and I (right).
The hike took us two hours to get to the top and only 45 minutes to make it back down. I was exhausted, dirty and enjoyed every minute of it and couldn’t wait to get my massage!
I was way overdue for a massage and thanks to Groupon I got a great deal on an hour full body massage with Magnolia Massage and Reflexology. I decided to give it a try since the price was right and it was close to my house. Samantha, the massage therapist did a wonderful job. I was comfortable, the atmosphere was relaxing and my tense shoulders and neck felt so much better! I highly recommend her!
Every summer I put up our above ground pool. It can be a lot of work with the maintenance of keeping the water clean, changing the filter, scooping out leaves from the trees, etc. So far this summer the weather here has not been all that great to take a dip in the pool, but on July 5th it was finally hot enough to take that first plunge into the non-heated water. So as soon as I got home from my massage I put on my one piece and slowly stepped into the very cold water. You get used to the cold water after awhile and it was actually very refreshing :).
The day ended with a beverage, a yummy dinner made by my hot bf and then watching one of our favorite shows (Justified with Timothy Olyphant) and then falling asleep early.
It was the perfect day off
P.S. I went to work on Friday and all day long wondered why I didn’t take it off also.